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生活中的5个球* {9 B' v& w% n, g
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。- t8 l1 Z# j. B' Z, R7 l1 I: v E0 T
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。- ?" W) ]/ W2 {: T* u
/ H7 J+ z" k% `- Q" \3 o怎样才能做好?- \( q# @- @4 H& R: Q
9 w8 @9 |' n. p) r1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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' n% A* m; P$ j2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。) l0 U& q7 N; b: N+ i& T* t% A2 b
! V: t3 J# u- K) @/ o( f4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。1 f- G; V9 [# u+ w) E" m) Z
5 s6 x7 Z# Z6 Q5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。* i+ O: B( \0 |9 u3 @% F' I
7 A+ v4 S) ?' T5 O' I; O# {7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。: |3 k+ c2 q* L# Y& n6 G/ g
; a2 t; G0 Y" J4 z9 q5 y) i10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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1 z7 q/ T) w& E# ^11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。2 W- Y2 C8 D" W
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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Five Balls Of Life
. I: @: ]$ a+ {/ Z4 ]6 ~This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
- y% l" `' ~+ j; kIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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) ~- ^& S! X3 g+ l; L6 VImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. n- |% s$ [4 V: R
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
4 h: S2 o! E" w3 M. f7 f' PThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?4 |8 g- K7 K6 y0 _' z- B! X
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. D8 v. {; \! z( J3 f' L% Q) z9 c
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.1 w5 i. x8 J- R: k
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.( f' j0 O2 j8 t( v5 { ~' G& g2 u
6 ]6 \% c. P! G6 R4 S4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.$ Z& U( w# O0 u4 n7 q: W. W$ _
# k6 k+ G U& h4 Y7 L; R5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.+ Z' F( V6 I7 c7 l: ] Z+ u
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.8 m. z5 Y6 s- |5 C& e! b% w
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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1 T/ {+ I8 Q" N: O8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.) W; V% j. r. w8 G4 w3 w# c ?
3 k$ {9 u Q+ ^6 E. b1 z2 L7 N1 M9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.% x$ |$ C \; v3 W, P
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.4 G- I' V- {, o d! i
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.& C: g) m* o) F m0 ]
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