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生活中的5个球7 q+ [8 m5 C) m7 _1 V) ^
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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( l# {+ v. w! Z7 x$ t2 E5 M" }& H设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。 v+ o9 W* [" _3 T9 l
( o1 u3 E, K7 A你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。1 G$ J- s9 }+ ~! i# q6 D
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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2 I8 t# o1 ` B怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。7 V8 Q6 r. r. b4 {; B, j
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。# j; K& L/ V Z2 f5 T# H
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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7 L3 h# D/ E: |, K, |0 I6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。1 l; o$ }0 N( Y9 S
4 h* J( Z- u2 k0 n6 u" y7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ! B( z x5 G. \
, g3 B4 w( S+ a/ K) }1 E8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。& q1 G/ A+ g" W5 p6 W2 g
% F1 J6 n$ X( f" T- V, A! a10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。5 O/ r& R& i" l- h* [, f
4 U# H2 d6 C" v- Y0 o11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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$ x. [* P7 k; b% R2 v2 H M* {2 q12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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' e7 q; W0 h; [9 u原文: p& g- S) S; T0 X8 G
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Five Balls Of Life+ u2 [2 i' t4 C0 D, Y6 a
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
" O) @# z/ R$ r2 N$ \5 r3 ^It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
# \5 W4 G. b' ?You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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" }7 d2 K3 Y3 i( F/ @' e. GYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
) ?* z9 I A8 `( s9 J1 ~They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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4 u8 A1 t% p' X& z" x0 m- ]1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you." c Y7 P) q' r* Q ~$ ^6 I; z
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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' ~" R) B% K- Y: R/ q2 D; y4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.* U* Y5 U) \0 T1 w- I- F5 T5 P
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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2 g) d/ t& g, y4 Q6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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( P/ D( ~) K% Q! E8 g# {; E7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.2 F3 k7 J5 x, J
2 t; x. t- b. x0 I8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.: G/ m Q2 h( a0 B n- T' O
3 H. ^" Y9 G, R; y$ f8 u9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.) r3 i* K$ q1 c
- V" U9 f- o8 b9 B( `& D10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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3 ^7 m1 H, v7 a11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.7 ?# r' W' p% s# J; q! z
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